LOVE, BREAK UPS, AND STARTING OVER PT.2

So when a bad break up occurs, what is the best way to go about it and remain healthy and not hurt both parties? Some people decide to break up because they do not love each other anymore, or because they have different goals in life, or maybe they just do not get along. Sometimes people decide to break up even though they love each other, for reasons that may be best for both parties. But how do you break up with someone you love? Even in song lyrics, you can hear the line "breaking up is not easy to do".

So why break up if you still love him or her? You may feel that there is love, but that they are not the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with, or vice versa. Or maybe due to certain circumstances, say long distance, you decide too much effort is required to make the relationship work. No matter the reasons, you start to ponder about a way to resolve this and start thinking about how to break up with someone you love.
Breaking off is not fun at all. Somebody is bound to get hurt. So how to break up with someone you love? Telling you to do it gently probably wouldn't be of much help because inevitably hearts shall be broken. Do not delay the break up further. The longer you take to break up, the harder it will become.
Talk it through with your loved one on the reasons for wanting to go your separate ways. If you are honest with your feelings and your confessions, this should make it easier on how to break up with someone you love so much. Do not make up a complicated story for the breakup as this will complicate situations and make it even harder to break up.
In a nutshell, when you break up with someone you love, make sure you pick the right place and the right time. Avoid making the situation awkward by picking the wrong place to break up. Be honest and sensitive with your partner and gently explain the reason for the break up. There is no one proven effective way on how to break up. As long as you are honest and sincere in your ways, you shall see it through!

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Patrick Stark
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